Sign up your way

Join with email and a password (at least 8 characters with a letter and a number), or sign in with Google.

Guided profile setup

• Single or couple
• Display name
• Birth month/year, gender, orientation
• Location & how you do relationships
• Interests (up to 10), kinks & play preferences
• A short bio and up to 6 photos

Your location, your call

Set your home city so people know what area you’re in. Turning location on lets you be found wherever you are — and it’s entirely up to you: switch it on or off anytime. (Live location is mobile-only.)

Trustworthy by design

Your birth date locks once set. Preview your profile exactly as others see it, and edit everything else — including gender and orientation — anytime.

Photos

Up to 6 photos — your first is your main. Tap to open full-screen, swipe up/down through pictures, pinch to zoom.

Photo verification ✓ Verified

A quick selfie confirms it’s really you. Verified members get a green check on verified photos and by their name. A quick selfie on the mobile app confirms it’s really you.

Lifestyle sites & partners

Link your SLS, Kasidie, SDC and FetLife usernames with per-site visibility (everyone, matches only, or hidden). Link your partner’s profile, too.

The swipe deck

Nearby members, sorted with people who already liked you first. Each card shows photos, age, verification, distance, identity and travel status.

💜 to like, pass, match

💜 to like, X to pass. Like each other and it’s a match. A “They liked you!” flag highlights people already into you.

Filters

Free: Age, Distance, Gender, Orientation, Relationship style, Play preferences.

Moxie+ Verified-only, Recently active, Locals-only, Kinks & Interests — with a live “Show N Matches” count.

Likes that mean something

Likes are capped on purpose — no like inflation, no liking everyone you scroll past, so a like here means real interest. Free: 25 likes/day.

Moxie+ 50 likes/day. Your remaining likes show in Settings and reset daily.

Likes & matches

Three tabs — Likes Me, I Liked, I Passed. New matches notify both people and appear in your Matches list.

In-app chat

Real-time messaging — but only after you match. No sliding into DMs; you both have to like each other first.

Telegram

When you and your match have both connected and verified Telegram, take the conversation to Telegram from the chat header.

Plan trips ahead

Each entered trip has a destination and dates. Trips turn on automatically when the dates arrive and off after they end. Moxie+ saves more trips.

Browse before you go

Turn a trip on early to explore a destination — it won’t get switched off on you.

“I’m here now”

Uses your live location to make matches. People will see where you are and you will see where they are. Your home city stays home. (Mobile only.)

You control visibility

Hide your profile to stop appearing in Discover entirely. Moxie+ Incognito shows you only to people you’ve already liked.

Block & report

Block or report any profile. Set per-site visibility for your lifestyle-site usernames.

Protected by the server

Your Telegram and LS site handles are only shown per your settings, and verified status can only be set by the server — never spoofed.

A passion project, not a profit project

We’re here because we love this community, not to cash in on it — so we give 25% of our net proceeds to the American Sexual Health Association (ASHA), working toward reliable, stigma-free sexual health for everyone.

Notifications

Push alerts for new matches, messages and partner requests (no buzz for a chat you already have open). Toggle them in Settings.

Where it runs

Mobile app (Android/iOS) and the web app. Live location and photo verification are mobile-only.